Recently I have, with great seriousness, said Yes to absolutely everything that has come my way. I have found to my delight that I am nicely full to bursting with things to do, places to go, and people to meet. There are four main categories of things that I am saying a resounding Yes to. They are
- Paintings, private commissions
- A Graceful Death Exhibitions
- Conversations about the End of Life, Finding Time to Think in our Busy World
- Workshops and Talks
- Soul Midwife outreach work
- Feeding Giant Boy
- Feeding Giant Boy's friends who have romantic bust ups
- Tidying up Giant Boy's weights
- Tidying up the lodgers after Giant Boy's weight training sessions
- Saying Yes to everything Fancy Girl asks for her wedding next month. I can't remember half of what I have agreed to but am sure she will remind me. It's better this way.
- Painting my toenails
- Failing, spectacularly and continuously, to have an early night.
Fabulous. And so I have re-jigged my whiteboard and have rubbed out the question marks beside the projects that had not, at that time, materialised. Now, there are bookings, and events, and confirmations, all underlined and with hefty full stops after them, signifying definiteness. I have had to buckle down and write some plans. And get my easels out and line up the paintings. And think about deadlines and what to do first.
First. In the Studio.
Father Dom is first. Father Dominic is my youngest brother, and a Catholic priest. His world was turned upside down by his stage four bowel cancer over a year ago, though he is now living with the treatment and the cancer and doing very well. I have started and abandoned his portrait three times now. The first time, he looked like a small Spaniard. Nothing wrong with small Spaniards, but Dom is a tall Brit. Second time, he looked like Dobbie from Harry Potter. I stopped painting him then and began to think I was not going to be able to do it. But this weekend, I decided it was time to just do it. Yesterday, Sunday, I spent a day in the studio enjoying the painting, and it has begun to form just as it should. Dominic, my youngest brother, is taking form and looking back at me. Tomorrow I am having lunch with him in his home in Dorking, and we will go over the interview I have done with him. One of the things I admire about Fr Dominic is his honesty to face his fears and the darkness when it comes. He is articulate and open, which is one of the things I want to capture for his part in the A Graceful Death exhibition.
Second, the A Graceful Death Exhibition
will be taking part in the Dying To Know event below.
|We will have the Meridian TV team with us filming Fred and the event which is a real bonus. Must remember to wear my twinkly nail varnish.|
The portrait of Father Dominic Rolls will be showing for the first time at this event. Come and see him, and meet all the other sitters who have shared with us their image and story, in order that we may know what dying means to them.
A Graceful Death will also be showing in Maidstone during Dying Matters Awareness week this May, with the Macmillan Cancer Support West Kent. This will be confirmed and I will let you know when the details have been agreed. (AGD will you come? Yes! Agreed.)
I am also planning a big AGD in Chichester in November. I am waiting to see if the venue I want is free. Fingers crossed.
Third. Painting Commissions. Back to the Studio
And here, I have three things to complete,
- The Daisy books. I am producing illustrations for this series of books for children, and have nine paintings for the first book to do in the next few weeks. Bring it on.
- Jesus on the Tube. For a very nice couple who live abroad. I can do it.
- A painting with the twelve months painted and decorated appropriately in twelve little sections. Yes, let's do it.
- Talks. At the Sussex Dowsing Society on 10 May, I will be talking about Soul Midwifery and A Graceful Death. This is confirmed but the publicity has yet to be done for it. Secretly, I know how to dowse. My dear old mother taught me, and she still uses it for such things from telling her if food is off in the fridge, to telling her I need an early night. When we were children Mother used to dowse everything, including us. She taught us how to do it and for a while I thought it was magic, and even used it to see which television programmes I should watch. I may get mother to dowse the venue in Chichester where I want to hold the AGD exhibition in November. Yes! she will say, and they will have to listen, or she will dowse all their secrets out of them.
- Workshops. My colleague Gill Lake and I are holding workshops called the Spirit of Living and Dying. These are interactive workshops from 10am to 4pm where we look at how facing our mortality can give us the key to living with passion and joy. The first one is at the Hamblin Trust in Bosham on March 14 (keep an eye out for that, they will advertise it nearer the time), and the second is at Angelica Alternative and Holistic Health in Barnham on 12 April. Here is a link to the Angelica workshop to see a bit more, and to book tickets if you would like to come. Tickets are £40 per person.
- Conversations. Oh these are going so well. The next one is in Bognor and is combined with a Life Board Workshop. I am so grateful for the help and support of my dear friend Vicky Hulatt and her Create Bognor CiC as it is her workspace that Gill and I are using to hold this day. The poster below says it all -
|After chatting about end of life matters, it will be great to spend time expressing how you feel with a Life Board workshop. Much chatting and cutting and sticking. And Gill's cakes, worth coming to eat Gill's cakes.|
I couldn't resist the picture below. Soul Midwives arriving to the Dying to Know event in Bournemouth. Good night all, till March.
|These are school girls from the 1920s who are probably smiling in Heaven and approve of this application of their innocent photo from so many years ago.|